Making time to help in the
classroom or chaperone a field trip can be an
enriching experience for both parent and child.
Opportunities range from
coordinating a monthly school newsletter to
attending parent-teacher conferences. The point
is to get involved.
"It is vitally important to
your child's sense of the importance of school
that you become as involved as possible in
school events," said Stacy DeBroff, chief
executive officer of Mom Central Consulting and
author of, "The Mom Book Goes to School: Insider
Tips to Ensure Your Child Thrives in Elementary
and Middle School" (Free Press, $15).
"Studies show that grades go
up with every level of involvement in which
parents engage," DeBroff said.
Whether helping out in the
lunchroom or attending an open house, the more
that parents participate, the greater the reward
for the child.
"Volunteering in a child's
classroom demonstrates the parent's interest in
school. It also allows for some shared interest
and experience that serves the parent-child
relationship," said Pete Stavinoha, a child
psychologist at the Children's Medical Center in
Dallas.
When parents show interest in
their child's school, the child learns to value
education and academic achievement, Stavinoha
said. On the flip side, parents get a unique
opportunity to witness their child's learning
process, social development and peer
interactions.
"All of this is important in
helping to establish a basis of motivation for
school achievement," Stavinoha said.
The first step to getting
involved is getting to know your child's teacher
and offering to help out in the classroom
whenever possible. Whether it's grading papers,
decorating a bulletin board with student art or
donating extra supplies, any help will surely be
appreciated.
"This may be one of the best
things you can do to help your child succeed,"
DeBroff said. "The students of parents who make
an effort receive more attention than most
students do."
If you have a regular time
each week when you can volunteer, let the
teacher know. If your availability is more
scattered, ask to be kept in mind for class
parties, field trips, science fairs and other
special events.
If you're a working parent,
think beyond the classroom.
"As a working parent, it gets
a little tricky in terms of devoting time,"
Stavinoha said. "Working parents should look for
opportunities that fit with their schedules --
and even take a day off now and then."
There are plenty of
opportunities for working parents to lend a hand
in the off hours, according to DeBroff. Some
options include:
-- Volunteer to be an usher
for school productions or offer to help with
scenery and set construction for plays.
-- Make treats for bake
sales, class parties or for the teachers
themselves.
-- Volunteer to be a guide
for visitors on parents' night.
-- Help from home by putting
together materials for art projects, grading
papers or typesetting student compositions.
-- Offer to make reservations
and arrangements for class trips.
-- Start a school newsletter.
This can be a simple calendar of events or an
elaborate student-produced newspaper. Parents
will benefit by being kept up-to-date. The kids
will love learning about journalism and seeing
their writing and art in print.
-- Offer to run errands for
the classroom like picking up books that
teachers have ordered from the public library
and delivering them to the school.
-- Volunteer to shelve books
in the library or file papers in the
administrative office after school.
-- Invite your child's class
to take a field trip to the place where you
work.
-- Look into becoming a
crosswalk attendant or traffic usher for parents
picking their kids up.
-- Become a leader for an
after-school group like Odyssey of the Mind,
which challenges children in creativity and
problem solving.